The large majority of dogs breathe, sleep and exercise meaningfully better after BOAS surgery, and owner satisfaction is high. The honest limits: the highest risk sits in the first post operative days, dogs with established laryngeal collapse have a lower ceiling, and no surgery gives a flat faced dog a normal airway.
Send what your vet said and quoted. A veterinary surgeon reads it and comes back to you with what they can do and what it would cost, before you pay anything. A written second opinion is from $250.
The realistic year later picture for a dog operated at a sensible age: sleeps flat and quietly, plays without hitting the breathing wall, handles warm days with ordinary care, and pants effectively. The stethoscope still knows it is a frenchie. The dog no longer organises its whole day around getting enough air, and that is the outcome the surgery is honestly selling.
Send the case, hear back from a surgeon with what they can do and what it costs, and only pay if you go ahead.
It is the late stage of the spiral: cartilage softened by years of suction folding into the airway. Mild collapse is common and manageable; advanced collapse limits what palate and nares surgery can achieve, and is the strongest argument for operating before it develops.
Laser and traditional techniques both work well for palate and nares in experienced hands. Laser assisted turbinectomy addresses a different, deeper obstruction in selected dogs. The team's case volume matters more than the tool's brand name.